How the hell does one person figure this all out?!? I'm the defendant in my own divorce and it's crazy to imagine how I'm supposed to get all this info!!!

"All documents and other tangible things related to you and your spouses health/medical history"

"All of you and your spouses credit reports from the past five years"

"All documents related to any loan or gifts you or your spouse have made to any person/entity with a value greater than $100"

My divorce lawyer is asking for this, but I'm so overwhelmed!!!