From Illinois. I’m coming to the end of my divorce all that is left is courts figuring out what she will get reguarding child support, 401k, pension, ect. I am trying to give a deal she can’t refuse. This deal would eliminate my stbxw from getting a child support check because I do not think it will be spent on the kids but on herself. I’m thinking of going in and offering 75/25 reguarding all the children’s needs. I’m going to make sure they get the best life can offer anyways. Any one in this group ever dealt with somthing like this? Any advice would be appreciated. Right now all she cares about is collecting every penny she can from me even though she was the one having an affair.