Live in Ontario, and getting to the point where I have had enough. Constant, constant fighting. I’m 41 and she is 36. 500K equity in house, $350K between savings accounts (all my doing because she can’t save a penny). $100K commuted value pension too. I make $100K she makes $40K. 2 kids. The tricky part also is that she is from another country and has nowhere to go up here. Will I have to leave the house that I have paid for? Am I going to get bent over?