My son is my world.

Tazariah · 2019-06-30T00:38:37+00:00

Play the long game. Start taking excellent notes. Track everything - time you spend with your son, time she spends, and spend as much time as you can with him. Build your bonds with him as deeply as you can with lots of love and respect. Talk to local, good attorney ASAP. Initial consultations are usually free. I realize you want out as soon as possible in all likelihood, but if you want to take your son with you, plan and be as patient and smart as you can be. Remember that no matter what - love wins. I'm a single dad of five and I will never stop loving and protecting and fighting for mine. You are his dad. Rest in that in the lonely times and revel in that during the good times. You will teach him honor and respect and loyalty along with dedication and commitment to each other if you take this horrible situation you are in as an opportunity to fight the most important battle in your life. Try not to ever let your boy see your pain and and anger through all of this and never ever let her see it. You are not alone. You've got this.

streetsmartwallaby · 2019-06-30T00:51:39+00:00

You and he can get through this. My sone was only a little older when I divorced my wife. I was honest with him in age appropriate and neutral (i.e. non-blaming) language. “You’re mom and I love you very much and we always will. We will always be your parents and work together to take care of you. But we cannot live together and do that: we will have to do that apart so we are all as happy as we can be.” Repeat as necessary.

Kids are tough and if your STBX is reasonable you will all get through this just fine. And if she is not document document document and take it to court.

Good luck.

In my family we are all in a much better place now; even the ex-wife admits to it.

Tazariah · 2019-06-30T03:41:54+00:00

I meant it when I said you are not alone. Document everything, do your homework and get all the help to fight for your boy. I wish you all the success in the world. Reach out if you need more specifics. All the best....

TheBossOfDancing · 2019-07-01T00:35:10+00:00

Whatever you do don't leave your son. If you decide to leave take him with you. My ex abandoned my son and I and it crushed our son but he knows I will always be a constant in his life.

Title	My son is my world.
Author	knunya
Upvotes	4
Comments	16
Date	June 29, 2019 11:57 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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