follow up to this

I secured the date. A few more aloof messages, then went for the weekend and got a "sure!"

Here's my question. I newly back into the game. The last first date I went on recently, the girl said "how about we make out" before Icould even get to it. But she did not want to kiss in the bar we were, sowe walked a few blocks over to the park. I was anxious about being watched myself, honestly. But I can get over it.

If I want to kiss on this date, do I just plant it on her on a lounge in a crowded wine bar? On the street outside? How do you guys do that first kiss in public? What if I go in for it and she stops me and says "not here". Whats the best reply to that?