My normal voice is lazy, silent, soft. I talk my mouth closed. I talk like I don't mean it.

My deep voice is louder, stronger, clearer and it vibrates around my chest. If I also add clear articulation, speach and stressing of words, I sound completely different. My mother wouldn't recognize my voice.

In first, I'm like a normal random dude. In second, I'm like an aristocrat or a rich dude who respects himself a lot or just better.

Should I go from first to second and stick to it all the time? Then wouldn't it be weird? Coworkers? Family? Friends?

I don't wanna sound pretentious. It kinda sounds pretentious to be honest. Like I have to conciously manage my voice if I want the deep version.