My LTR of 3 yrs fucked my personal trainer (who I was friends with) What can i do for revenge? (The guy deals steroids - carrys a knife etc)

dRePe_Thill · 2017-02-09T13:10:24+00:00

Walk away, cease contact with both and continue your journey, neither were good to have in your life.

revenge = emotional investment, emotional investment = beta

Doing nothing is the ultimate revenge, why? shows they weren't even worth the time, which is true, and now you get to focus on yourself.

ThreeEyez · 2017-02-09T13:10:32+00:00

Going to assume this is a troll post. But if it's not the only solid advice I have for you is MOVE ON.

Platos_slow_brother · 2017-02-09T14:06:51+00:00

These people are not part of your life any longer. Ghost them both. Block them on all social media. Never inquire about their status with mutual acquaintances. Block them on your phone. Do not frequent any place where you know they will be, like parties of mutual acquaintances or their favorite bars.

If someone brings them up to you in conversation, your only response from now on when their names come up is to say, "Hmm." And then change the topic. You do not know these people any longer. You do not discuss them. You do not bother to hate them, because they are people you have ejected from your life.

Never discuss the circumstances with anyone. Never complain to anyone else about about what they did. People will notice your stoic reaction, and it will gain you respect out of this whole shitshow. You might as well get that out of the deal.

But if you chimp out and try for some stupid revenge, police and prosecutors are in your future, and everyone who knows about the situation---which will be your friends and family, and all their friends and family---will think you are a weak, simpering nutjob.

the-bum-hammer · 2017-02-09T14:30:05+00:00

There's no revenge here. Walk away or get killed due to some sense of pride, where girl continues to fuck the guy that killed you.

WolfenSatyr · 2017-02-09T17:24:08+00:00

Let him have her. Cut contact with both.

hatefulreason · 2017-02-09T13:59:02+00:00

facial her, take a picture, send it to him then let him keep her and move on

hunteeer · 2017-02-09T13:53:03+00:00

Report him. If revenge is about your relationship to her it's beta. If it's about him betraying you, it's standing your ground. Huge difference. Report him and than cut contact

Title	My LTR of 3 yrs fucked my personal trainer (who I was friends with) What can i do for revenge? (The guy deals steroids - carrys a knife etc)
Author	aussiehere_ArmaniG
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Comments	8
Date	February 9, 2017 1:01 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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