Tiktok ex gf

iainmf · 2021-06-04T08:38:28+00:00

Do not take legal advice from strangers on the internet

CarelessTrifle5242 · 2021-06-04T10:36:44+00:00

You mentioned in your post that you have two kids. Don't do it for you do it for them. This is clearly reputation destruction. If this video is watched by your employer or parents of your kids then it can have a bad effect. Imagine yourself explaining it to your kids!

My suggestion talk to a lawyer! We all know that most cases are for pretense (e.g., Katie Hill) or publicity. Make sure to get a good lawyer!

Being silent is equivalent to acceptance!

Edit: typos

Eoasap · 2021-06-04T11:26:57+00:00

I know it's in most guys nature to just move on with your life, and give her a pass, "She's just venting " , etc. But we need to start protecting ourselves more. If the only way to protect yourself is to file a police report and get her arrested, DO IT!!

Don't give the tired excuse "Well, she has a kid... she owes school loans" As we see daily on this site, they clearly don't give a shit if guys have kids or mental issues. You'd at least get her locked up for the truth, she's trying to get you locked up for a lie and attention.

Someone who once claimed to love you, blasted you online to thousands of people with lies designed to ruin your life. She gave out personal info about your wife and kids. What purpose to give those out unless she's soliciting kidnapping your kid or attacking your wife?

I don't care what her situation is,she goes after your family, intentionally trying to hurt them, you need to fight back and get her arrested if you can. her kid would be better off with the grandparents and she clearly has no qualms what happens to your family. SHE made a choice (with lies on top of that) to turn it into a situation where you or her gets destroyed. You need to make the right choice for your family. She put herself in this situation not you!

A large amount of women have proven they will lie to destroy men. We need to stop giving them passes for it. If they make a choice to lie, publicly destroy you, and possibly get you arrested, we've gotta start fighting back!

1) Keep all text messages and emails. 2) Auto-forward them (email anyway) to an anonymous account you created for archiving purposes 3) *Keep a daily journal with what you did, who was there and if you can prove it (ex: June 4- went to Applebee's w/Bob (6-8pm) server- Danielle. paid with visa card) 4) Keep all pictures. Even if they don't relate to the evil woman, most are time stamped with GPS location which can prove you were not with her on the day in question. 5) Be prepared to defend accusations. don't let them just say whatever. Ask what the date was, where you were, who else was there, who paid? did you talk afterwards? did you talk at the end of the night? make them give concrete info, then refute it with saved text messages/emails/pictures. 6) Keep records of any medical reports, trip to doctor (for both of you) medicine history, etc. 7) Be at least aware of possible motives. Be aware of you're walking into a trap-like situation. (example- you break up with a girl. a month later she wants to have second for old times sake. This screams trap! She could be trying to get pregnant, can go immediately to hospital and have a rape kit done, and you'd be dead to rights with DNA proof) 8) Keep a record of any and all friends she has, even if its just a first name. you never know if you may need to research them later. Example- If your tires are slashed, but ex is definitely in another state, look on her friends social media to see who can be ignored and who should be looked into more

*It takes surprisingly little time to keep a daily activity log, and many reasons how it can be beneficial to your life beyond this. I've gone back many times to find the date something happened. Its also a good habit to he organized, but taking a minute each day to keep a log can save you. Its easy to refute her lies if you have a log.

QueenOfMetals · 2021-06-04T09:07:43+00:00

You moved on, but she clearly did not.

You have a wife and children to protect from her. If you have a wife and kids, this woman is years deep into still thinking about you.

That’s scary.

Scary enough to where you need a plan to protect yourself from what appears to be an escalation of delusional behavior.

If you do not have social media, how did she get a picture of you? Is it an old picture of you together, or something more recent? That is a cause for concern.

thedirkdiesel · 2021-06-04T08:55:53+00:00

That’s fucked. Sorry to hear you went/are still going through that

EvilLothar · 2021-06-04T16:12:26+00:00

Lawyer.

screamingolive · 2021-06-04T21:16:13+00:00

sue em for defamation of character

duhhhh · 2021-06-04T11:05:45+00:00

Unfortunately, I think this website will be really helpful to you.

https://outofthefog.website/

It probably isn't about you or reality, it's probably just about how she feels. I am guessing you having a successful relationship with another woman for years while she has had unstable relationships makes her feel like you "won" and she "lost" so she's trying to "even things out".

HeadHigh71 · 2021-06-04T21:38:41+00:00

Don't say anything to anyone and get a lawyer

Rifter0876 · 2021-06-04T23:52:12+00:00

Lawyer, sue her.

Title	Tiktok ex gf
Author	thisaccountisthrown9
Upvotes	20
Comments	30
Date	June 4, 2021 6:37 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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