Passive aggression and soft nexting

quicklogaccount · 2017-02-17T15:51:31+00:00

Well, it is passive aggressive, but you won't act as a girl.

You'll communicate your disappointment once, overtly if needed, then act unphased and leave her alone. You won't sit on her side and act increasingly more upset and disappointed at her and force her to feel and share your feelings, this will lower your value;
You won't be doing that to toy around and emotionally blackmail her into it. You'll be severing your bonds as the relationship grew unfulfilling for you and you'll be getting reading to take the leave.

All in all, you won't do it to try and force her to be empathetic to you, feel your feelings and be in your place. This doesn't work, if the other person is in scarcity and need for validation she won't possibly be empathetic, he/she will just be miserable and comply.
You'll do it so she doesn't understand you poorly. If she doesn't fuck you, you say something (or throw a tantrum) and then act as if nothing happened, she'll see your actions. You're a whining fellow and nothing really happened. On the other hand, when you don't act the same, she'll look at your actions and notice something happened. You just need to make sure she doesn't misunderstand it.

By the way you might want to be bluepill and only talk on the first time some shit happens, maybe the couple first times. Some women actually hear you instead of trying to push the boundaries, but most don't.

nastynickdr · 2017-02-17T16:24:59+00:00

Thats not passive aggressive. Thats a power play. You show her, via action (ghosting her), that you wont put up with her shit. When she acts shitty you wont be there, since your time is too valuable to be spent with some entitled unpleasant bitch. Since women crave attention and drama, her hamster goes wild and she becomes more attracted to you. "Why isnt he replying me?" "Is she seeing that bitch from HR?" "Maybe he doesnt like me?"

In any kind of relatinship/contract, theres always one side that needs the other more. If you need one particular woman more than she needs you, the relationship is doomed to go to shit anyway. You will become needy, whiny, weak, beg her to do stuff, etc, she loses attraction and respect for you. It needs to be the other way around if you want it to work.

HappySmaug · 2017-02-17T18:27:03+00:00

It's passive aggressive and it's a power play. Women are passive aggressive so you are speaking her language through action. I think that's why it is so effective.

W_O_M_B_A_T · 2017-02-17T16:41:47+00:00

Betas guard their mates. Alphas disregard.

Title	Passive aggression and soft nexting
Author	TWYW
Upvotes	2
Comments	6
Date	February 17, 2017 2:46 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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