i'm 25y old and this is my first relationship, She's a smart girl but she's also extremely proud and sensitive...you can imagine all the mistake i'm doing.

One of them, maybe the biggest one it's trying to discuss rationally and logically with her. Every time it's the same shit, she is CLEARLY wrong but even if i write and essay of why i'm right she just can't say "sorry, you are right" but instead, when she sees she's wrong but can't admit it she just disappear. the "i have X to do now can't argue anymore, bye" it became a classic.

I hate this, with all my fucking heart! if something comes up i have the urge to resolve it instantly and not only with her but in every part of my life. But i can't do it with her and i get mad and then i get sad, so sad that it changes my brain and i start to think "well, maybe i was too harsh, maybe i'm wrong" and i feel the urge to text her.

Now, since i'm not completely stupid i resist this urge and don't text her if i know i'm right, she usually text ME after a bit and i act like nothing it's wrong and we move on, one time she waited something like 28h hours before she texted me.

Today we are at it again, she was "stressed" up for some work and i tried to relax her a bit for all this morning, then at launch she had a burst of rage because i wrote something she perceived as an attack on her which was totally not, so i got mad at her and then the argument translated in "you got mad at me" and shit like that, it felt like arguing with a 6y old kid, believe me.

nonetheless i tried to stay calm and rationally explained that it was her fault she misunderstood me but she couldn't see reason and just escaped the situation.

I need help handling situations like this, i need closure when arguig i'm not capable of letting things in the middle