Why the fuck do the people that create the MRM complain that it exists?

I got banned form several forums and meetings because I actually took the definition of feminism serious and talked about equality but actually they only allow woman's issues

So the logic next step would be to create a group where you can talk about mens issues with equality but somehow everyone hates that

Lefty YouTubers always say that it is just a few isolated incidents where feminists have a issue with men but that 100% of MRA are missoginistic incels