If you read my last post, I went over to this girls house last night. I kind of like this girl, she's smart, good at music and a year younger that I thought was a unicorn. She brought me to her room and we watched some shows, was getting mixed signals but still escalated to making out. From there I continued to escalate and she goes "I'm not the type of person to take things quickly, I can't". I knew she just came out of an abusive LTR so she asked if she could tell me about it.
So I sat there for 30 minutes listening to what happened in her previous relationship and the details weren't as bad as I thought. Keep in mind, this girl has hooked up with "a couple" guys (always multiply by 3) since she broke up with her LTR (3 months ago) and she told me "its only okay when I'm drunk". Very carousel rider-like response, this immediately eliminated the whole unicorn component for me.
After getting completely nowhere last night and her basically saying she wants a relationship to put out, I'm kind of lost as of what to do. She is having a party tonight with about 50 people to which me and a few of my friends are coming to. Should I use her as an SMV boost tonight to talk to/flirt with her friends? Or what should I do in this situation?
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