Most westerns think in Africa women are oppressed and men are the oppresser but that’s a false narrative.

Women get affirmative action in universities and schools they pass exams easily while men have difficulty to pass exams, they get affirmative action in government and private organizations they get a job easily while men struggling to get a job,the government supports women and girls emotionally and physically in Africa, African governments are working with international organizations to stop Female circumcision while male infants circumcised even with out anesthesia, you can’t speak against feminism in Africa if you do they witch hunt you and you risk your job and so on, you can’t speak about men and boys issues if you speak they will tell you men and boys have no issues, BUT the feminists still say women are oppressed in Africa they don’t even acknowledge that men and boy have a difficult life in Africa, terrorist groups like BOKO HaRAM kidnaped 10,000 boy and additional 350 boys in the past decade but the government and international community doesn’t care about that while 200 girls abducted by The terrorists groups and the hole world help the girls including America, China,Germany, Israel, France British, iN the last 7 month there is a small war in Ethiopia and 1100+ 207 MALE died by a genocidal act all of the victims was innocent young men BUT the government and feminist organizations said only women and children was the victims, women have domestic violence shelters while men have zero, in Africa Ethiopia the government only study about women domestic violence victims rape victims sexual assault victims Andy so on but government don’t study about men who suffer from domestic violence, rape, sexual assault and so on, in the late 7month there was a war in Ethiopia and the government give food and other aids to women, children and older people and disabled people first i don’t have a problem about children being first BUT why women get food and water first men and women get help equally were is equality?if you try to speak about gender equality and men and boys issues they will tell you that it’s a fault of patriarchy and women were oppressed for thousands years so they will tell you to shut up. Africa especially Ethiopia and feminism is strong it’s seems like feminism is not about equality and will further destroy our society what should i do? Should i keep silent? Or speak? i afraid to speak in public like fourms and meetings about men’s and boys issues should i speak with confidence?