Is it bad to have your best friend be a girl? [20m]

savagedealer · 2017-03-02T07:00:11+00:00

Only real benefits you can get out a female friend is hooking up with her friends or sisters ... other wise their value caps out really fucken quick ... when I tried to bounce ideas off my female friend very rarely did she understand what I was saying let alone what she was trying to tell me ..

quicklogaccount · 2017-03-02T11:32:29+00:00

Man, having women as friends is tricky. Mainly more attractive girls. But it's possible. Bear a few things in mind.

She likes receiving affections, she likes feeling desired, and she won't see anything wrong with flirting with you to get you to give her that. She is or will quickly become hard shelled with this stuff and will act like she's seducing you. She won't be. Have your expectations aligned.

95% of women think they know what they want in a guy, and they are wrong. They think they don't care about attractiveness.
The other 5% know they want an attractive guy, but it is REALLY unlikely that they'll ever tell you that. In best case scenario she'll tell you if you ARE attractive, but she won't risk telling you otherwise if you are not. So, don't seek women for dating advice, and if they solicit advice that antagonizes with male's and mainly PUA, be skeptical of it.

This is the most important. Women can be great friends, women can be deceiving lying whores, but ALL WOMEN ARE LIKE THAT. Including your best friend. Feelz before reality for all of them. Whenever something emotionally appealing pops around, don't try to communicate rationally, or you'll be pissed and make her mad. Either you think of how she feels, or don't engage in that conversation.

The_Other_Same_Guy · 2017-03-02T12:38:04+00:00

Most women will not understand the difficulties that men face throughout life, or really get the struggles that we've all been through. A male best friend is the best choice in nearly all cases and gives an outside source of testosterone/masculinity.

I, myself, have a friend that's a girl. Not close to being a 'best friend' though. The most she contributes to my life is a female perspective on situations (which has its uses).

I would recommend keeping her as a friend, maybe practicing TRP strategies on her. Observing her interactions with other men and vice versa can give you some insight into what to/not to do.

[deleted] · 2017-03-02T13:37:45+00:00

Ghost the friend or fuck her and then ghost

blackedoutfast · 2017-03-02T17:53:21+00:00

your friend is right. the fact that you haven't done anything in the past just means you're an orbiter/stuck in the friendzone.

no sexual attraction between us

pretend this very attractive girl who you like and get along with very well walked up to you right now and said "hey treeme100, i've always though you were cute and cool. i'm horny and i want to have sex with you. no strings attached, no drama, no consequences. let's go have some amazing sex with each other" be honest, would you say yes or no?

if no, you're either lying or homosexual - this girl is attractive and cool why wouldn't you fuck her?

if yes, it shows you why you can't truly be friends with an attractive girl. you can be true friends with guys because the relationship isn't being corrupted by wanting to fuck.

Title	Is it bad to have your best friend be a girl? [20m]
Author	treeme100
Upvotes	1
Comments	6
Date	March 2, 2017 6:50 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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