I am new to the whole TRP-Community, at some point I will tell my story but I want some more credibility with this community first. Today I want to ask you to grade last nights date. I have been hitting it up on Tinder lately and I have good success with getting matches. I look good and have good pictures but I am not very experienced with Tinder dating. To my date:

  • I match with a HB8 and I decide we meet up for a drink on Monday evening
  • We meet up, I pay for our drinks and we chat. She talks A LOT so to keep her from bogging down into some sea of madness I redirect our conversation at least 4-5 during the evening.
  • I intended to keep the date short and follow the 2-date technique but she wants another drink
  • I escalate during the second drink, she resists and and I lose interest and start looking at other women
  • We restart the conversation and I escalate again 10 min in, she responds and we make out wildly for 20 minutes.
  • We talk some more, make out some more and I suggest we go back to my place, she declines and says that its too fast for her.
  • At this point I am tired and want to go home so we leave, make out again outside and then part ways.

My questions:

  • My goal was to get her home with me. Should I have never mentioned coming back to my place and just leave as the 2-date technique suggests?
  • Does making out with her actually decrease her interest in sex me in some way?
  • What should I write to her today?

Thank you for your help.