DISCLAIMER: THIS IS MY OPINION. Of course you can disagree and of course there are exceptions to any argument. I am simply wanting to post my thoughts. So if you want data, please search it on your own. This is NOT a research paper or survey and I have not claimed it to be. This is a culmination of one man's experience with dating apps and his own personal evolution in his own thoughts. Thank you.

In my opinion, the current dating scene now is a total and utter shitshow. Most of it has shifted to online and it is now basically a free for all, nobody gives a shit, anything goes, market. This applies to both females and males. It's basically a hookup culture.

And for me the red pill realization truly shed light on why the online dating scene is so frustrating and dehumanizing for men over a period of time. The main reason being that many men don't realize just how useless the entire process is no matter how much "game" you have because in the end, almost every single girl (80%) are all basically shooting for that top 10% of guys on the apps aka the guy who is most physically desirable (over 6ft, abs, etc.)

The remainder of the pool is then also saturated with beta simps who are basically handing over cash and putting all these women on pedestals. So this leaves guys like me wondering, wtf am I doing here? Not only is this a toxic environment, it's a losing game overall.

Think about it for just a second. This basically equates to the fact that then 80% of girls who btw are NOT the top 10% of women in terms of physical attraction are all shooting for the top 10% of the men on the app.

We all know that men have no problem sleeping with girls that are not their level of physical attractiveness, as to these types of top tier men have so many options at their disposal, so this then in turn explains why so many of the mid to even lower level physically attractive women suddenly wake up to a false realization that they are also just as desirable and entitled to the same benefits as a top tier woman since the top tier men had a one nighter with them.

In addition, this continues a vicious cycle in which the women then go on TikTok or some other social platform complaining that "all men are shit" whereas, in fact they are referring to the top tier men who basically hit it and quit it.

Seriously though, you're chasing a fuccboi and expecting a prince? Like wtf?

That's like me expecting a stripper to actually cuff me after buying lap dances?

How fucking stupid is this logic?

Here's a link to a video that explained it for me:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uKZEXzinGL0

And if you think my post is simply being "misogynistic", here's a video of a woman laying it out for other females:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XrnVUiL9GqA

After the explosion of social media, we basically became a very hyperphysical world. Pictures more and more dictated our worth and slowly our values and character became secondary to physical features. Fast forward today to swipe culture.

When I first started to go online and go on dates, I asked girls what it was like on the other side of online dating and they often said, "omg, it's fucked up. They like ask you to come over right away and/or ask for nudes." This literally stunned me at first but later after doing some research and reading more about MGTOW, I realized this all makes sense in the long run because if a girl shoots her shot with a top tier dude, he ALREADY has 20 other girls who matched with him that day asking him to come over. He has a virtual buffet of girls wanting to basically fuck him so what does he have to lose by being rude or hyperaggressive?

Also, on the flip side, because of the schools of beta simps in these online dating apps, women have started to also cultivate a culture of entitled norms. Hey, if I'm physically hot, (which by the way also applies to ONLY a small percentage as it does to men therefore most women thinking this way are TOTALLY overrating their physical and sexual value) I can demand this +this + this+ etc... If not, then I'll just move on to the next.

And just like that, ONLY fans was born.

Dating apps have become basically a fuccboi buffet or a simp army recruitment center.

Overall, I have to say that after exploring what MGTOW had to offer it has truly opened my eyes and made me realize just how the Red Pill is definitely real. I realized that rather than sit here and complain about the situation like a beta simp, it really came down to two choices.

Either I spend my time more productively and rewardingly by bettering myself which is always a winning investment (MGTOW) AND eventually attract only those who truly want to be with me or I can continue to degrade myself on these losing apps begging for attention and become more bitter and desperate. I choose the first option and I haven't looked back since.

As of today, I am completely date app free and I am so much happier for it. My bank account thanks me as well.

The main purpose of this post was simply to help anyone that feels the same way in that you are not alone in feeling this way. And for those of you who disagree, I'm happy you have found your happiness through a different path as well. Best of luck to everyone on their journey.