How did you guys come to be the way you are? I like girls that are assertive and not dependent on me to establish their identities, but I also want them to respect the fact that our genders are different and that our interactions should reflect the best way for a man and a woman to interact sexually, romantically and so forth.

I like the way the women here seem to be a bit more relaxed, supportive, caring, and submissive without really losing their independence or sense of confidence.

I also hate excessive ornamentation (jewelry, complicated clothing, makeup, accessories etc...) and find it really unattractive. One thing I've always wondered about is how I could possibly take a girl that perhaps isn't excessive in ornamenting herself (but nonetheless does so like most others), and lead her to believing and thinking that she would be happier and more confident if she just abandoned or at least barely employed ornamentation in general. I think that it is possible for makeup to cover up defects like skin blemishes, and if all it does is that and I cannot notice it beyond that point then it's probably ok (i.e. it's not used to add to or enhance natural beauty, being the best form of beauty). Girls that don't wear much makeup/jewelry, what would you advise a man to do if he wanted to lead a girl he's interested in towards thinking and behaving in a similar way as you, in this regard?

And more generally, how would you go about leading or influencing girls to generally be "red pilled" in the sense that this sub-reddit is? Most women I'm interested in already sort of fit the bill or have the precursors in some way of a red-pill woman, but guiding or helping them reach that potential is a tricky subject that I could use your advice on.

I should probably note that I'm not interested in other interpretations of "red pilling" that involve race or gender discrimination or returning women to the state they were in the early 20th century. I usually hold the term with some amount of disdain, as most red pills I've talked to are just weak men that label their insecurities and misdirected anger as being "aware and red pilled", but the attitude in this sub-reddit is something that I quite agree with and enjoy.

I should also add that I'm only 21, turning 22 soon, am finishing my undergraduate degree in Physics, play music, like to be athletic and weightlift, take care of myself nutritionally and am pretty handsome, so I think that girls would probably be willing to make some effort to be with me in a way that could translate to them adopting/modifying their behaviors (i.e. being more red-pilled). And I haven't had much experience seeing girls much older or younger than me. Advice that applies to girls in the 18-25 year old range would be ideal. I've heard (but cannot comment on for lack of experience with older women), most in this age range are "girls", and not women, in their ability to be confident and assertive yet feminine and experienced in the way this sub-reddit seems to be, so I'll take whatever you guys say with its corresponding grain of salt.

As a side, if you guys could post your ages in your responses so I can get a bit of a biased sample of what age women come to be "red-pilled", that would also be interesting to know!