So. Someone still indoctrinated in the feminist ideology started a thread critisizing the blanket statement "men are trash", mainly saying it was inneficient and risked to antagonize people.

/r/menslib feminists mod quickly closed the thread, but not before some users managed to voice that they were also bothered by the statement. Some of them did seem quite close to crossing the Rubicon and becoming MRA.

It's also telling the the current 2 'best' comments are by women that are essentially saying that men need to suck it up. This is the exact type of sentiment that those that visit Menslib view as toxic masculinity. I'm at a loss. I don't know what to say.

Well, i know what to say : its not Menslib. Its the world. It has always been like this. The so called toxic masculinity has nothing to do with an imaginary patrarchy

It was all along the lack of genuine support for men as being.

Feminists tolerate self depreciating men as "allies" as long as they obey a very strict of belief. Welcome to Men's right to actually defend men.

It comes across to me as a statement that there is no possible masculinity outside toxic masculinity, and explicitly confirms the views of MRA shitheads that feminism hates men. It's fundamentally counterproductive, even if it's a valid expression of real frustration.

Well, the shitheads gallantly accept your recognition. You know what is also a valid expression of real frustration ? MGTOW is. Digest that.

When I hear or see stuff like this, it makes me feel like trash. I don't know if that's because I'm probably not 100% cis, but I absolutely hate it. Whether it matters or not, I HATE HATE HATE blanket statements. I don't care if it's about a group I belong to or not. Maybe it's just because I'm a very literal person, but painting everyone in a group with the same brush really rubs me the wrong way.

Welcome to mens's right. We will teach you to understand the moral abuse you received and offer you constructive way to help other not suffer it.

Most of what I hate about myself is just normal Y-chromosome stuff. Without the association to the truly awful men in my life, and without the stereotyping that turns me into one of those men to every stranger, maybe I’d have a better relationship with gender. When commenting anywhere on anything I always feel the need to disclose, like an AIDS victim on a date, and I always fear the treatment I’m going to get for it. And that hurt isn’t something I can share with a man to be mocked and emasculated or shunned.

Welcome to Men's right. You will be accepted for what you are and not shunned. We dont mock thoses who had hardship, who hadent sucess or are weak. We accept them.

Sadly, a lot of other member argued that unlike men who should shut up, women were legitimate to say all men are trash because of the patriarchy. It seem to be one of their religious belief so i dont think it is supposed to make sense.