Man's life is nearly ruined cause of a false accusation

goodmod · 2019-10-08T11:35:53+00:00

Here is a subreddit that provides support for victims of false accusations

KneeDeepThought · 2019-10-08T13:45:33+00:00

not "nearly ruined," he's in the process of having the ruination complete right now! He's likely to lose his job and career despite being exonerated, and he's lost the most important people in his life to this horrible trauma deliberately inflicted on him.

The kid, mom, and cops all should have done things very differently to avoid frivolous damage to this man. None of them ever considered doing so because deep down he is disposable in their eyes. That's the fight he's having internally- "how can I think about having these people in my life when they've proven they'll throw me to the wolves when it's convenient?"

The unfortunate answer is he shouldn't.

IrascibleTruth · 2019-10-08T18:26:58+00:00

and she won't accept I don't want to now be with her?

Who cares what she accepts. Association in this case is voluntary; you never need permission to end a relationship.

AuricCrusader · 2019-10-08T21:22:37+00:00

Mods over there just locked the thread. Guess it didn't fit their narrative.

e1337chin · 2019-10-08T22:49:06+00:00

original and update

SqueakyPoP · 2019-10-08T20:34:38+00:00

The only people to blame here are the ones who are continuing to ruin his reputation after his name has been cleared.

bouncedeck · 2019-10-08T19:16:29+00:00

The best thing he can do is ask for severance and get a letter of recommendation from his current job and move to another city. No matter what he does where he is now, he's always going to be stigmatized where he is now.

deepcut6 · 2019-10-08T15:57:27+00:00

I am not saying that he should get back with the woman again, but I can understand being compassionate in this situation. The woman didn't really do anything wrong, she did what any person should do when their child claims to be molested, she went to the police. They arrested him, they investigated further, and they let him go when there was no case. The son didn't do it out of malice or anger or wanting to hurt him, he did it out of fear and confusion after actually being molested.

If I was him I wouldn't get back with her, but if my son came to me and told me he was molested this would go down in the exact same way.

Meyright2 · 2019-10-08T21:14:39+00:00

Never date a single mother unless her husband died early or died from an accident. A single mother already proved she has poor decision making skills in life. Just don't do it, it's not worth it

Title	Man's life is nearly ruined cause of a false accusation
Author	Bobolink911
Upvotes	151
Comments	17
Date	October 8, 2019 11:14 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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