About to do something stupid.

stickfiguresk · 2017-03-21T18:43:25+00:00

Do it. Eat the plate of shit she trades you and learn a lesson about how this will make you less attractive in her eyes, and how she's going to give bare minimum effort in stringing you along until she gets another faggot to call you and threaten to beat your ass if you don't stop stalking her, all for the sake of humble bragging to her friends how this loser is giving her unwanted affection even though, "I'm like, not even that pretty"

I expect an update. Spoiler: She's not going to read it.

TheThingsIThink · 2017-03-21T18:36:28+00:00

Whelp, make sure you file a field report so people can learn from your experience.

jeezydasnowman · 2017-03-21T18:41:20+00:00

Lmao go ahead as give it to her. Rock bottom is where you learn the lesson.

And fyi she's NOT gonna read it :)

[deleted] · 2017-03-21T20:25:57+00:00

love letters are cringey as fuck unless you're a soldier or a prisoner. if you do send it, you might as well post it here so we can have a laugh

abdada · 2017-03-21T18:26:19+00:00

Hard next means no contact.

Letters are contact.

prodigy2throw · 2017-03-21T18:37:50+00:00

If you need random internet people to talk you out of a stupid decision you're too far gone off the deep end at this point. Do whatever and learn the hard way is my suggestion.

ButtslamAntifas1488 · 2017-03-21T19:59:05+00:00

Give it to her and I will find you and beat your ass.

SeamusAwl · 2017-03-21T18:31:38+00:00

Remind me exactly why it's so stupid.

Do it, nothing lets a girl know everything you are feeling like a letter you wrote. Do they care though? Not one bit. If anything, they wont get passed their name on the sheet before they either burst into teary eyed laughter, or discreetly toss it in the garbage. But atleast you got to tell her what you are feeling right now.

absentrider · 2017-03-21T19:00:13+00:00

Oneitis can be a bitch. It fucks you up to the point of thinking that girl is the only one you want to be with. It curves your mind into the Beta kind of thinking.

When you're in the spot you are right now the first thing you should do is think ahead. What makes this girl so special? What is/are the thing(s) you see in here that you don't see in others? Decompose her and, with a calm and clear head, prove to yourself she is not like the others (AWALT).

Give her that letter and nothing that you want to happen will happen. Give her that letter and you will be in the position you don't want to be right now. Ignored or Friendzoned.

Oneitis is one of the many tests life is going to put in your way to test your resolve. I could give you a wall of text for the reasons for you to NOT give her that letter. But it's better if you think why you shouldn't and why it's worse if you do it then if you don't.

Realize that the most important person in your life is yourself. Not some girl.

Docbear64 · 2017-03-21T19:01:37+00:00

I've been there and done that kid . She's going to say " THAT WAS SOOOO SWEET, IT REALLY MADE MY DAY" and then when you press her about it after she pretends to forget she's going to let you know it's better for you two to be friends.

Movies like to tell us that long devoted speeches about love and how she makes our heart feel like it's reborn every time she smiles are how you show a woman she's worthwhile and declare yourself to her completely and totally .

We all seem to ignore the man doing that is Ryan Gosling or Leonardo Dicaprio . If you want to do it go for it but I've been there done that , and it will not turn into to the dream-like romance you imagine it will . That's not how people work .

Still it's a lesson that's best you learn yourself.

iTomJ · 2017-03-21T23:23:37+00:00

You got 2 choices. Don't do it and, well, nothing changes. You both move on with your life and you keep your dignity.

Do it and learn a hard lesson. Not only will she tell you some bullshit or that she doesn't like you but you'll feel like shit since you told her how you feel and it didn't go as expected.

Go no contact and move on man. If she liked you, you'd know. You wouldn't have to spell it out.

Pitchfork51 · 2017-03-22T05:30:44+00:00

If a girl did this to me I'd post it up on my fridge and my friends and I would have a good laugh every time they came over

nicetimeisback · 2017-03-21T20:13:36+00:00

it doesn't make a difference if you give it to her or not.

in both cases you have oneitis and she see you as a beta gay faggot, so she'll never going to suck your dick or let you fuck her pussy.

hard next

Title	About to do something stupid.
Author	rpthrow25
Upvotes	1
Comments	22
Date	March 21, 2017 6:25 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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