The woman who introduced me to TRP smokes or vapes too much. I'm not a fan and she knows it. We have dated for 5 years and she is submissive to me. When we go on vacations she will try not to smoke and use the patch. She has smoked since a teenager but discovered vaping a while back. I think she is down to the lowest nicotine setting but that's not the point. She has the oral fixation. It also goes hand in hand with drinking. You know smokers when they drink they need a hit. This is not a question of breaking up or not it's more of a method of leading her. Sure I can lay down the law but then she would vape when I'm not around. I can let it go but then it irritates me. We have discussed it alot and she wants to quit at times but my question is how to apply TRP principals here. Thoughts?