I (25M) been seeing this girl (20F) for about a month now, we fucked the first time hanging out and quite a few times throughout the following weeks. The past week we hung out twice and when she came over Tuesday she shut me down for sex and was being distant (but she will send me snapchats/messages all day, even if I don't reply), she said she was just "in a bad mood and didn't want to have sex" and she refused to try to explain her reasoning "I just don't even know" she would say.
The next day she apologized to me saying sometimes she just gets like that and it had nothing to do with me and was her happy cheery self again.
On Thursday I don't talk to her at all till I get off work and tell her I'm coming over, she was excited and stopped hanging out with her friend to go home.
I get there and she mentions immediately, "I'm so tired, I just want to sleep". We climb into her bed and start watching good ol Netflix, whenever I made a move we would be making out then she would stop me and say "I just want to sleep, I'm so tired, can't we just lay here?" I say something along the lines of "Haha I sleep like a baby after sex", "Well that's fine you can just lay there hahah" etc.
So it was a beautiful day outside and I had suggested earlier in the week we go for a country drive, and she was like "how about we go on that drive?!" (granted when we talked about it she was telling me she would give be giving me road head and we would have to pull over somewhere random to have sex), It was a great drive, I was blaring music with the windows down, we were talking having fun, not sex or anything of the like.
Got back to her place and when we go inside she shut me down again (I am dominate in the bedroom, not passive by any stretch of the imagination), she was like "and now you're all mad!" (I was just blank stare, losing frame by not smiling? shit probably) I was running through my head, "should I just get up and ghost this girl right here and now?" I proceed to tell her I enjoy her company and that sex is important to me, and that since we started talking its been a steady decline in the amount of sex, she talks about how she just "has a lot on her mind, feeling overwhelmed and can't/doesn't want to even begin to figure it out", I say "ok well my girl isn't one who runs away from her problems", I tell her I'm going to give her till Monday to figure her shit out.
Finally we have sex, then when I'm heading out she was like so "are we going to still talk or are we really waiting till Monday?!" I said, Monday.
When I get home my phone has like 4 messages from her and a missed call,
"That was good" "Like that felt amazing" "I know we said we would talk Monday but really??? You can't answer my text." "lol Ok night night"
then this morning "Wait so the fact that you're doing this means you're ghosting me. Lol"
I dig this girl, talking to her is great, sex is probably the best I've ever had, she is a freak.
What is ya'lls opinion?
Update:
Haven't talked to her all day She just texted me "I'm actually so pissed rn that you're doing this to me. Like wow dude okay show your real colors."
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