Serious question here.

The militant feminists today who claim everything is sexual harassment and scream patriarchy, are they all just lesbians or what? What I'm trying to wrap my head around is how can these women hate men and male sexuality so much if they are actually attracted to and enjoy the company of men?

This would be the equivalent to a group of dudes constantly making the news, getting together and wearing penis hats, and constantly saying they are absolutely disgusted by females and writing articles displaying a vicious hatred of female sexuality (which nothing of the sorts even exist to my knowledge).