As long as I can remember, it always seemed that virtually everyone was "talking" (AKA in the early stages of dating) with different people on and on again all thru midde school highschool and even now in college where girls and guys wouldnt go more then two-three weeks without talking to someone at any given time. While talking they would usually hook up to some degree with a lot of times having sex within a week or two of initially "talking" where the girl would either lose interest due to a more alpha guy that came along or the guy would fuck and chuck the girl as he had secretly planned all along. I myself have slept with one girl when I was 15 but have not been "talking" to any more then 1 girl since the first and cant believe how little experience I have as the majority doesnt even think of it as being a big deal, and yet I barely have talked to any girls in comparison throughout my 20 years on the planet. So I ask, was this all in my head, Or do people really "talk" so to speak with different people almost bi-monthly like its no big deal? And if so how can I join in on what Ive been missing out on all along? Thanks.