Hello everyone. I am in a crossroad, and i would greatly expect to hear your replies.
Currently i am in a 1.5 year LTR which started thanks to the moves i learned from Redpill. On our 3rd month, i asked the golden question about her past , the numbers , which i suspected to be high because of certain unfavorable behaviours. After confronting her and hearing that she mated with around 12-15 people greatly angered me. And that point i again turned back to Redpill , decided to 'not give a fuck' With this attitude, the time has passed and it has come to the point that i don't feel like doing anything extreme to please her anymore (trips, suprises etc) Because i simply do not get any benefit or services that satisfy me anymore.
The biggest problem in our relationship is Sex. In order to improve things , i rented a place for me , and she stays frequently. However, the current situation may represent a 20 year old happy marriage. Where there is hugs and kisses but rejection when action is initiated. Spending an entire week in the same house results in 4-5 times of sexual intercourse at max. This number doubles if we go to a vacation. I would totaly understand this situation if her past was less than a hands figer count , and i would simply assume 'sex isnt the most important thing in her life' But her past clearly says so, because she was never alone.
3 months ago i had a breakdown like this and confronted her. I said i wanted more sex and because of the lack of sex i described the anger i was feeling and told about me questioning her past. After this talk, she started crying , denying her past , not taking responsibility and said 'her numbers are compeletely okay compared to her friends and average numbers' After crying she suggested to take the pregnancy control pill , my long time request without me asking. She used it for 2 months and things didnt improve any bit - other than me enjoying more on our 'once in every 2-3 days' encounters.
Last week , On the day of her birthday she casually said she will drop the pill while we were in public. Since then i almost completely lost my motivation to do anything for her.
My question is: What would be your advice on getting her to understand that SHE HAS TO WORK EVERY GODDAMN DAY for me to not think about her excessive past and just be happy while sleeping next to her , instead of trying to sleep sexleslly and getting angry , WITHOUT DUMPING HER ASS?
Also please note there has been no major Red flags such as talking with other guys , doing suspecting things , doing stuff without notifing etc. Everything regarding current loyalty and faithfulness is %100 great , hence the LTR.
Also there is an issue with finding a substitute , because of my current social conditions i do not get to meet woman that is on the same or above score level on my current girlfriend. And i do not want to step down on lower numbers.
Please note that i read this guide: Long-Term Relationship Game Theory: A Beginner's Guide to Managing Your Bitches
Looking forward for the replies.
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