Holy shit. My mom actually made me a pussy? Can you do a damage control on me?

askMeWhyAmIhere · 2017-04-05T08:50:11+00:00

First things first : breath, relax. Better? Ok. You seem to think you're damaged, and you probably are, but so is everyone. If your dad was this fucking alpha male and your mum was perfect you wouldn't be on reddit, you'd be a retired Navy Seal who works on Wall Street. Everyone here is just trying to get better. It sounds SO FUCKING LAME but you've done the first step, you've shown awareness that you need to change. There are cucks out there wearing black lives matter shirts and pussy hats screaming for safespaces, that genuinely believe they're doing fine, they're not. Self awareness is rare, but you've got it. How's your physique? If you need diet I'd suggest intermittent fasting , and for muscle I'd go body weight training or 5x5. I am DEFINITELY no role model, but I'm happy to chat.

j_arbuckle2012 · 2017-04-05T22:03:10+00:00

Breathe. Meditate.

Your mom is a cunt. 'Sokay. Mine is too.

Go no contact for at least a year. Lift. Read the sidebar. Lift some more. Pick up a combat sport: MMA, BJJ, Judo, Sambo, Muay Thai, etc. anything that incorporates constant, rigorous, full contact sparring. Devote yourself to lifting and martial arts. DO NOT SPEAK TO WOMEN, DO NOT CHASE THEM. You are not ready. Build your life around understanding the Red Pill and building your vision of your future self. Measure yourself against who you were yesterday and always strive to be better. Re-read the sidebar. At this point most of a year will have passed. You will be athletic and dangerous. Now read up on game and start getting laid. Dont become obsessed with notches. Get good at fucking instead. Get real good at fucking. Read the Sex God Method, internalize it, read it again. Make them squirt with your fingers, then your dick. Research the anterior/posterior fornixes, hit them with your dick. You will now be the kind of bad boy douchebag your mother tried sooooo hard to squash. Laugh as you fuck that cite brunette you met at the grocery store and enjoy your life.

Get crackin'.

W_O_M_B_A_T · 2017-04-05T20:04:19+00:00

A)You should probably head over to /r/raisedbynarcissists. They might be able to give you more specific insight.

If you haven't already, I'd strongly recommend going Zero Contact with your mom.

B) I'm not saying what you said isn't genuine. But your Mom basically trained you to talk like you're full of dramatic bullshit.

Your mom likely has a serious Personality Disorder. Abusers don't experience anything resembling normal emotions. So they learn quickly that if they don't want people to think they're disturbed/insane, they have to pretend to feel things that they don't.

Exaggerating the feelings they don't actual feel is part of the game to get everyone else to take them seriously.

So I get a sense from reading this that there's no substance behind what you say, it's all exaggeration.

Practice, in conversation, summing up what you think and feel in one sentence.

How fucked am I?

You decide.

Either you're fucked, and you don't feel that being sucessful with women is realistic. Or else you're not fucked and you feel self-improvement is worth your time.

Make a decision.

11-Eleven-11 · 2017-04-05T18:48:24+00:00

How old are you? And do you still live with her?

TotalPigeon · 2017-04-05T20:37:07+00:00

You are here. You read and accept posts from this place as truth. Ergo - you can accept alpha (real man) behaviour. No, it isn't easy or quick to reprogram. You have to find things to work on and force yourself out of your comfort zone a little at a time every day. Just keep in mind you've already passed the biggest hurdle - recognising and accepting that you need to do it. Though it is a blessing and a curse - there's no perfect way back to blue pill. I'd bet that eventually you will be back here to do this properly - so why not just do it now?

With regards to your concerns about not being able to make it. It may take a few years to truly become the person you want to be, but then you have the rest of your life to enjoy it. I've personally overcome a huge amount of social issues that I've always had. I suspect I had some mild undiagnosed autism as a child, though being bullied badly didn't help with any of that either. I'm not perfect now by any stretch, but I have 10x the charisma I did a year ago. My only regret? That I didn't start doing all of this sooner.

Too many people are willfully oblivious to the race going on around them. If you really try, you can surpass them with ease. Keep in mind that life is a marathon, not a sprint. But most people are barely crawling. I guarantee you'll feel better about your prospects once you start trying to improve, and you begin to catch up to and overtake them.

Holy shit. My mom actually made me a pussy? Can you do a damage control on me?

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Title	Holy shit. My mom actually made me a pussy? Can you do a damage control on me?
Author	askMeWhyAmIhere
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Date	April 5, 2017 8:27 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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