I'm a good looking dude I'd say, and I look very much like a fuck boy. But no matter what situation I'm in, Tinder group chatting, Tinder, at the club/house parties/whatever, women are straight up rude to me to the point where I can no longer tell if it's just major league shit-testing or not. Even when I conduct myself in a civil and kind manner, they will still bark and bite.

It's getting out of hand, to be honest. I was at the club this weekend. I walked up to a group of hot girls and started talking about random shit and then I noted the girl was holding a cigarette and I asked her "Oh, so you smoke? You didn't look like the type".

Immediate hostility from their part. I tried to dissolve the air of hostility by saying "Don't worry. I smoke too. Wanna buy some marijuana?" <- obviously joke, could tell from my delivery. They giggled and then I walked outta there to catch up with my friends.

The hot girl whom I approached comes up to me on the dance floor and grinds the fuck out on my crotch.

Half an hour later we meet them again, and the hot girl's friend said "Weren't you the guy who sold marijuana?"

I said "Of course, you want some? Got a whole bag hidden in my back-pocket."

She said "Well then you can fuck off".

This is nothing, shit like this happens all the time. They're almost always very hostile and antagonistic. Especially the girls who are way below my league. How do I dispell this animosity so I can have some chill, laidback conversations with girls?

Edit: They also like to bait me into saying some shit that they can get upset about. It's very easy to read and I rarely fall into it. I mean, girls who match with me on Tinder (even with superlike) be on that ultra shit-test bullshit and it's impossible to even have a proper conversation before they start shooting a volley of insults your way.