Questions about frame

dzorro · 2017-04-11T02:03:34+00:00

holding frame: not letting your pussy urges take hold of you

TheRedStoic · 2017-04-11T13:46:34+00:00

Repost:

Frame

tldr

All of frame is summarized by viewing yourself as the prize and priority. A separation between "other" and "I" with "I" being the prize. That's it.

Core

Frame, it's the color you see the world in, the ever present sound track of your life. Everything about strong frame comes from viewing the world as a stage and yourself the main character. You're the dashing hero, you're totally separate from them, you're the only person that truly matters in the end, and that's all there is to it.

If you're the prize, you don't have to lower yourself for anything or anyone, a prize has options, people and things are abundantly available to him, he simply says yes or no.

If you're the prize your perspective is not contingent on the mass fools. Your appeal may be tailored to utilize them but that's about all.

If something isn't offered, it doesn't phase him, there's more right over there, a few metaphorical steps away.

If he sees something he wants he takes it, apologizing later if in the wrong. If it's clear he can't take it he asks. If it's clear asking is wrong, he has other options and owns it.

If something he has displeases him, he corrects it. If it does so again he discards it. The same for people. He chooses what is in his presence, after all he's the prize, he has a lot of picking and vetting to do.

If those around him aren't prizes, he allows only enough time for them to enjoy him. Then leaves or ignores. A prize doesn't waste on sub par interaction, he has options after all.

If something goes wrong a prize accepts that it's his fault. Maybe he didn't plan ahead, he missed a sign, he didn't lift hard enough or study enough, maybe he began acting as though he wasn't a prize, that's not cool. He fixes it immediately. No one else will do all that picking and vetting for him after all.

Lesson learned

Treat everything, every moment of your life, as though you're the prize. Most of your frame will be set.

Title	Questions about frame
Author	raizo87
Upvotes	4
Comments	5
Date	April 10, 2017 10:59 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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