So i am in a situation where I dont have girls to my place, so I regularly go to there place. I often ask "can I come over", but I feel like I should replace this request/permission for something better and less beta. Ideas?

Also… is it better for you to set up the hangout/sex, or is it better to let her do it. This plate had been asking me 90% of the time if I could come over because I only wanted to see her like once a week and she wanted more. Now I have been seeing her more and it seems like she will msg me about something unrelated, so that I ask to come over. So in my mind idk if this is good or bad as I see some positives and negatives to both. If I set it up, that allows her to avoid feeling slutty and it turns her on that I want her and makes her feel wanted… on the other hand I previously had control over both commitment and sex, because she wanted more sex than i did. If on these occasions I don't setup the hangout, than she will request it if I wait long enough. So its obv that she wants me to do the set up/initiation for sex (this is via txt btw)… should I be doing it, or just wait and get her to do it?