Like I see a difference in my danish culture. Pedagogues push boys to play outside. And be neglected. My sister by contrast has way eay too much power. She manipulates with a full range of emotions. Crying hysterically at funerals, laughing loudly at movies or pullingme closer at “scary” animates movies like “9”.

Meanwhile I am only allowed to be neutral or happy. I can’t cry or be angry. This is how it is in Denmark. I took some commercial classes at the high scchool level. There was an immense pressure to be interested in bullshit things like football and playing games. I hate it. I need to learn makeup, to refine my voice and practice higher pitches. I need to be much much more diligent in going to the doctor. But not only that, I also have to fight really rwally hard to convince my doctor to allow me to get an ultrasound for a bad hip. And when my gf has an std there is apparently “no chance” this fungal std spread me. That is what HER gynecologist says. And andeologists do not exist in the danish healthcare system. The men has to share testicular problems with specialists who has to know about female urinary tracts. I hate it! We might have had some sort of feminist movement in the 70’s but men are failing hard in todays danish society.

And it depresses me greatly to constantly be reminded of it in this thread. I know the battles are important though.