How do guys rationalize being beta bucks? And more importantly how do their girls rationalize it while they sleep with other guys?

GunsGermsAndSteel · 2017-04-24T23:15:27+00:00

Guys rationalize being "beta bucks" because societal pressure puts them in a position to believe they need to be providers, regardless of whether or not there's a return on their investment. IE: the guy who works 60 hours a week while his wife stays home, then he comes home at night and makes himself a peanut butter sandwich... if he was getting a return on investment, she would have dinner waiting.

Girls rationalize fucking other guys like this: "It just kinda happened"... females do not need to hold themselves accountable, it's not really in their nature, any of them.

Pitchfork51 · 2017-04-24T23:13:45+00:00

Because to admit that they fucked up and basically suck is hard. Easier to live in denial.

empatheticapathetic · 2017-04-25T00:05:05+00:00

I don't understand the question

jay_jay_man · 2017-04-25T01:34:56+00:00

"It's kinda weird" was one girl's rationalization while she stopped mid-blow job to comment on the fact that she's never given her current boyfriend a blowjob but sucks me off no problem. When I asked her why, she just shrugged and mentioned that she sucked off her the father of her son too but not her current boyfriend, basically the Chad that got her pregnant. As the evening progressed I gave her a facial, came in her mouth, and tried her best to make me happy by swallowing (some) of my load.

Personally, I think it boils down to a girl's genuine attraction and being fun to be around. When we first met, we clicked, it was a party atmosphere with drinks and we both danced the night away. So far, every time we've met up at my place I take careful steps to be the same fun and playful guy. To recreate that vibrate atmosphere by playing loud energetic music and providing alcohol.

SquishyBrainStick · 2017-04-25T03:35:53+00:00

What are guys who can't hit a 5+ supposed to do? Or people who really don't care and just want company? I mean, it's not an ideal solution, but that could account for a handful of em, maybe. Also, don't forget that there are a looooot of stupid people...

Title	How do guys rationalize being beta bucks? And more importantly how do their girls rationalize it while they sleep with other guys?
Author	dahcima
Upvotes	5
Comments	11
Date	April 24, 2017 10:05 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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