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Is it a good idea to sacrifice sex and girls in my early 20s to focus on securing the best possible career for myself so that when I'm rich I can bang all the girls I want?

sidney5256

April 25, 2017
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Title Is it a good idea to sacrifice sex and girls in my early 20s to focus on securing the best possible career for myself so that when I'm rich I can bang all the girls I want?
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sidney5256

Upvotes 1
Comments 23
Date April 25, 2017 3:53 PM UTC
(9 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/67hf9p/is_it_a_good_idea_to_sacrifice_sex_and_girls_in/
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[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Yes. I only banged like 25 girls until I got married at 28 and I was even in a frat in college. Study, work hard, make money. Now I'm happily divorced and banged 20 girls in the past year.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm pretty sure he's saying more like no girls.

[–]salezman123 points4 points5 points 9 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

That's a very blue pill way to think.

If you had said "Is it a good idea to sacrifice sex and girls in my early 20's to focus on securing the best possible career for myself so that I can become wealthy and be the best man I can be" then....well, the answer would still be a soft "no, not exactly" but its a hard no on the question you actually asked.

You do NOTHING for the sake of pussy. Using wealth to fuck is beta as fuck. If you wanna become rich, do it for you. Do it because you want security. Do it because you want to travel and see the world and experience culture. Do it so you can have a shiny new Mastercraft to play with on the weekends. Do it for the Lamborghini, the yacht, or the jet. But don't do it for the pussy. If you do anything in life for the sake of getting laid, you're gonna have a bad time.

Now, as far as focusing on your career for the sake of bettering yourself as a man, yes. Put that first. Let that be your main priority. But you don't have to spray on pussy repellent every morning before you leave the house. Just work on your career and if the pussy finds you, dive in and tear it up, then get back to work.

[–]sidney5256[S] 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Damn this was motivating thank you

[–]1oldredder0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

You do NOTHING for the sake of pussy. Using wealth to fuck is beta as fuck.

what? That's only the way of the most alpha of kings and emperors across Earth for all human history.

You got alpha and beta inverted in your brain. They use money and power to stomp MILLIONS to death by COMMAND and fuck all the pussy they want. That's how it's done. It's the top-most key marker of alpha.

[–]salezman120 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You've misunderstood the connection here. I'm not saying powerful people don't have money and also fuck a lot of pussy. I'm saying if he is using the fact that he has money to woo women, that is a beta trait.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

yeah, they dont do those powerful things for da puspus

[–]MAGAchief2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Yes

[–]sidney5256[S] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Wow really? In still a virgin and lately it's been affecting me mentally. But I still try to stay positive and think about the future me getting all the girls when I'm successful.

[–]MAGAchief2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Seen many guys that went for pussy early on and now they are broke.

[–]1oldredder0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

same

[–]Mudpielol1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Get an escort.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

why do you have to give up one for the other?

Work on your career and have fun doing it. Along the way, have fun and have sex with girls, when you want to and when you can. But don't be a "boyfriend". And don't give up anything for girls.

[–]sidney5256[S] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Understood thank you

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Because socially awkward people hamster away that they are "working on their career" or some shit to avoid the realization that they are losers.

[–]Terdmuffin1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

I see these types of posts all the time. Honestly if you can't do both you need to check yourself and see where you're really spending (wasting) your time. "focusing on my career" is a good excuse that protects your ego. Instead of approaching that girl you hamster that "well I've got to focus on my career so I wouldn't have time or energy to try to date that girl so I won't waste me time approaching her." Just because you have a good career and a lot of money doesn't mean you'll be swimming in Pussy. And there's no guarantee your career or financial goals will ever be met. Living a well rounded life will be more productive, satisfying and attractive.

[–]sidney5256[S] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

I don't know man it's just weird. I have a sister who's a few years younger than me. Her and I are always competitive trying to best each other all the time. We never really talk to each other unless it's to trade insults. I'm just very competitive in mature. I just don't know how I can chase girls when I'm always fighting with my sister. It doesn't make sense to me.

[–]Terdmuffin1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You need to stop making excuses is what it boils down to. It's not weird... People do it all The time. It's called rationalizing or here we call it hamstering. You don't have time for girls because you're too competitive with your little sister? First it's your career, then it's your sister, what excuse is next?

[–]1oldredder1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Just because you have a good career and a lot of money doesn't mean you'll be swimming in Pussy.

90% of the time it does mean you'll be swimming in pussy.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

eh, 50%

[–]1oldredder1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

always put money/career ahead of women but choose carefully. Do it for money, not for women.

Most men are lying to themselves and sacrifice the best career options and savings to chase women and then pretend they didn't. They did. They could have been 3x as rich if not for the early chasing due to all the time consumed in the process. That includes ALL alpha chads.

[–]Merwebb0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If you are only doing it for the women, it is wrong.

Do it for yourself.

[–]bob13bob0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

don't save sex for old age. you can do both.

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