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I fucked up. Started fucking this girl and agreed to be exclusive. Obviously it caused me to revert back to my beta ways. She's started to curve me, what do I do? Obviously I next, but do I cut off the agreement we have, or do I move on without a word? How important are the promises we make?

Apathological

May 4, 2017
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Title I fucked up. Started fucking this girl and agreed to be exclusive. Obviously it caused me to revert back to my beta ways. She's started to curve me, what do I do? Obviously I next, but do I cut off the agreement we have, or do I move on without a word? How important are the promises we make?
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Apathological

Upvotes 2
Comments 11
Date May 4, 2017 1:05 AM UTC
(9 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/694iol/i_fucked_up_started_fucking_this_girl_and_agreed/
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https://theredarchive.com/post/90569
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[–]Rockefeller342 points points points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Stop using the word curve. How bout' dat?

[–]mountainbiker1780 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

What did they even mean?

[–]Endorsed Contributormallardcove1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

It's not difficult

It's really not

You have oneitis so bad that you are trying to hamster up a way to remain committed to her and continue to fuck her.

[–]Apathological points points points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

I know I'm ghosting her. I'm just asking if I should tell her it's over first. I think a man's word is important.

[–]Endorsed Contributormallardcove0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Full ghost. She wants closure, don't give it to her.

I think a man's word is important.

Fucking bullshit its not(in this situation). There are situations where that may be the case, but this is not it. You are literally grasping at straws and trying to find a reason to still fuck her because you have oneitis.

[–]Apathological points points points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

You're right. Thanks bro. Time to get back to my real life.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Your word is not important.

The only thing "acting like a man" or "breaking up like a man in person" has ever solved is a way for her to shit all over you and make it seem like you were the bad guy the whole time.

Girls live and die on social value Being actually broken up with is the worst thing that can ever happen to a woman.

Fortunately for them no girl I've ever met with has been dumped. Somehow they've turned it against the guy that they wanted it to begin with and he just did it for them.

Hamster is strong.

[–]hatefulreason-1 points0 points1 point 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

tell her you want an open relationship and if she says no throw a fit about how she doesn't care about your happiness and she's the most selfish person you've ever met ;)

[–]youcantdenythat1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Just tell her that you need to work on some things and that you need some space. She'll get the picture.

In a couple of weeks invite her over and fuck her if you want and just keep her as a plate.

[–]Docbear641 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I had an unspoken exclusivity with a chick and just let her know I couldn't do it anymore. She became a great plate after and the closest thing I would want to a GF while I ad freedom to fuck whoever I wanted ( as did she).

Let her know you don't think you can be exclusive anymore, if she isn't ok with that you two break up and great , if she is you have a plate and whoever elses you start gaming . I'm against sneaking around if you want to fuck other women say it , be ok with it, it's for you not for her .

The worst thing you can do to yourself is ignore what you want for her sake .

[–]what_then0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

1) First of all it's not a fucking contract....it's a relationship (sort of I guess) and relationships END sometime...

2) You should honor your word when you gave a promise with your OWN FREE WILL....not when a woman used sex as a bargaining chip-blackmail or even guilt....(I assume that's the case)

Tell her that you changed your mind....DON'T APOLOGISE....

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