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At a local Restaurant near my house. (Also the men's room was a single-person restroom while the women's room was a multi stall restroom)

spidercatt4

December 30, 2017
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/r/MensRights
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Title At a local Restaurant near my house. (Also the men's room was a single-person restroom while the women's room was a multi stall restroom)
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spidercatt4

Upvotes 33
Comments 14
Date December 30, 2017 5:39 AM UTC
(8 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/7mzvcp/at_a_local_restaurant_near_my_house_also_the_mens/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/MensRights/at-a-local-restaurant-near-my-house-also-the-mens.908582
https://theredarchive.com/post/908582

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[–]rodrigogirao 19 points20 points21 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You know, a bad Yelp review works wonders. Do it.

[+]1234user12341 points 8 years ago [recovered] (4 children) | Copy Link

I read it as a tongue in cheek comment, a bit of poking fun.

[–]Lipophobicity 11 points12 points13 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yea, this is exactly the kind of petty bs that feminists get made fun of for caring too much about. Men's rights should not include the right to avoid being teased.

We have many real issues, this is not one of them.

[–]Zepherite 7 points8 points9 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Absolutely this. If we're not careful, and I'm worried the horse has already bolted on this one, we'll all be part of a society wide competition to call out as many 'problematic' things as possible.

Everyone loses if this becomes the norm.

Lets learn from feminism/social justice's mistakes not repeat them.

[+]GettingGains1 points 8 years ago* [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

Maybe, but not calling out problematic issues that men experience while only women call it doesn't reduce the society loss. It just makes it so ONLY men experience losses. It is better for men to start demanding more to spread the losses to women too.

Only when women are shit on will things change.

[–]Zepherite 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I see what you're saying but I respectfully disagree. It's that kind of behaviour that means a minority of people in western countries identify as feminists, despite agreeing equality is needed. They see the pettiness and unnecessary moral purity that has infected large parts of the movement and distance themselves from it.

Similarly, It's why 'alt-right' politics has grown so much over the last few years; people are pushed away by some of the left's almost religious zealotry.

I have no desire for myself or the MRM to emulate this behaviour. Besides it just being needlessly authoritarian, pushing people away from your ideals in the pursuit of moral purity is counter productive. People will turn on you.

I would say point out when others are being ridiculous rather than fighting fire with fire all the time.

If everyone points out the tiniest of transgressions, then everyone, no matter your political persuasion, will have to walk on eggshells in fear of saying some trigger word.

You have to dismiss and ultimately ignore those who take offence at the most inconsequential of things. If no one pays the pearl clutchers and professional victims any attention, they lose all power.

You can then focus on the things that actually matter.

This sign is harming no one and kicking up a fuss about it makes people look petty and could diminish the impact of any actual issues they may bring up by association.

This is not a hill to die on in my opinion.

At worst, this is a time to tut and immediately move on.

[–]LabTech41 6 points7 points8 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah, but just try to say that the women should pay, even their fair share...

[–]Nion_zaNari 3 points4 points5 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is the kind of thing I'd choose to read as a joke with multiple meanings (with the more male-friendly reading being that women are so sure they are inherently always right they couldn't even handle their toilet being on the left), because the other way lies madness. It helps that whoever decided to put this sign up probably didn't even consider any alternate ways to read it, so it's probably an attempted attack on men that kind of backfires.

[–]Uzrathixius 5 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Eh. I mean the latter is kind of shit (without knowing their demo); but let's not get too uppity over a joke.

This is a joke at both genders expense.

[–]Weetile 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

And... imagine if the roles were reversed.

[–]bhavv 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Personally Id make a complaint about that both to the restaurant owners and as gender discrimination to the police, even if I didnt get taken seriously.

[–]Mr_MRAnarchist 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Talk to the manager about it. If they don't see the issue, don't go back there, and make sure nobody you know does either.

[–]NaughtyGnosiophile 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I actually think it is practical to have more women's stalls than men's. Women generally take longer and have you seen the line for women's washrooms when there are an equal number of stalls while there is no line for the men's?

[–]ThePigmanAgain -1 points0 points1 point 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If i ate there i would put a huge cockroach in my salad and then scream bloody murder!

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