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[–]1walawalawa4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I've had two in the last 3 years.
It's hard to get over because they push and push and push to get your attention and keep you that you think they'll never leave---even though you hope they would.
The last one as is typical, created these triangulated relationships: going out as "friends" with two of my friends.
These two guys are substandard thirsty beta orbiters. So when I finally had to leave after one of her angry text melt-downs, I was crushed inside to find out she went out with one of these "friends" of mine, got sloppy drunk and threw herself at him---the "Friend" told me.
It's been 5 months. ZERO contact. She tried to get my attention: stalking me, sending my Christmas gifts back with an angry note, parading a "friend" in front of me.
I'm getting over it by 1) knowing my ghosting of her was the best and only thing I could do
2) finding other girls and just moving on
3) framing in my mind that it was her and not me (read the Shari Schreiber blog)
4) when I did see her on the subway a month ago...I walked two cars away to get away from her.
It's hard because they throw themselves at you, then dump you for guys who you would never think would be your equal. That has a devastating effect.
Sex is always crazy with them. But in the end they devalue and diminish you and if you allow that, you lose their respect.
The irony of these girls is that you have to always be prepared to leave them and never come back...that sparks their own abandonment issues and competitive instincts to re-seduce you.
Which is why recycling is so common. No contact.
[–]rigbed[S] -1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I want mine to come back when the no contact order ends, tie her up and rape kids into her. I see the advantage of having sociopathic alleles
[–]1walawalawa1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
There is no "No contact order".
You'll never win with a girl like this. She will always be manipulating you.
If you allow yourself to be re-seduced she'll get bored fast and start pushing you away and all the crazy-making behaviours will start again.
Leave it.
[–]rigbed[S] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Trust me It would be suicidal to "return" to her. She's derailed my life with a rape accusation. No I would use her as a piece of property like she deserves. I know she's going to take the easy way out eventually by killing herself, she's already tried. She owes me 15k in legal fees. She could probably make that if I pimp her.
[–]prostaddict2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
My favorite read on this:
http://www.sharischreiber.com/anycost.html
[–]Endorsed Contributorvandaalen1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Good stuff!
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