If I want to work at a bar or nightclub as a bartender or just work there in general, not a restaurant bar but a party bar type of place, will I pretty much have to quit my 9 to 5 in order to even get a chance of getting looked at?

Edit:

I am willing to get by on 3 hours of sleep every night if that is what it takes and work 80+ hours a week as well, all I need is just one opportunity.

Really wanted to do it in college but all the spots were reserved for fraternity faggots and a lot of the ones who got hired were fat and ugly. It is the number one thing on my bucket list for my 20s and I am willing to make some serious sacrifices for it.