LDR in college?

4nt43us · 2017-05-21T04:33:59+00:00

I completely disagree with /u/invader_goose. A LDR in any circumstance is not worth it. Wake the fuck up. All that time travelling, time spent talking to her, time spent organising, could be spent on self improvement. You basically have a really bad version of ONEITIS. If you want to waste your life be in an LDR, if you want to win and not be a beta like the rest of society, which is why I assume you read this subreddit, then break up straight away.

A could bet a few guys on TRP would give half a nut to be back in college single again. Don't waste this time being tied down by some woman who is 1.5 hours away, I do not care how hot she is. Do not do it.

Invader_goose · 2017-05-20T22:56:02+00:00

Depends. I am in a LDR, 1hr and 30 min away. She's in law school and I am working on getting into a DPT program. We're both incredibly busy BUT we make time every weekend to hang out. That's nonnegotiable. It works for me and that's all that I really care about. Again, you have to think about yourself, so if it works for you and she's putting in a majority of the work then go for it. I'll give you some reasons why this current set-up works for me. 1. I have two jobs and intern at two different clinics. So most of my days are at least 8hr days, I have 3 12hr days. I don't have time or the energy to put up with stupid ass bitches and their games when I have plenty of other shit to take care of. 2. We have bomb ass sex and is very submissive. She has made the drive to my house the last 5 weekends, even during her finals week so I know she cares about the relationship...for now. 3. She has been very receptive to changing her behavior when i point it out.

So the combination of a gf that puts in the work to visit me, have bomb sex every weekend and changes her bad habits/behaviors makes it a LDR that is well worth it for me since my time is limited and so is my patience. She knows this and thus very responsive to my frame. We'e been doing this for 9 months. Granted, we have had a few hiccups here and there but who doesn't in a relationship. As long as your frame is tight, you can make it work for you.

HardPuns · 2017-05-21T12:13:06+00:00

Hahaha poor guy.

I was in one until two months ago.

Have fun in hell.

Grow balls, stop being a pussy and break up.

aurelius_shrugs · 2017-05-23T17:48:33+00:00

If it's more than a 30 minute drive, and you're the one doing the driving, it's definitely not a relationship dummy. If she visits from out of town, fucks and leaves, she's a plate at best. If you're in college, you're wasting your time in a "relationship" in general.

TheDisillusionist · 2017-05-20T20:06:50+00:00

I mean if getting laid sporadically knowing she is getting fucked all the time would be worth it to yoi, then yeah, it would be worth it.

TxnyMontana · 2017-05-21T17:00:29+00:00

No LDR, please. That's so blue pill.

Pitchfork51 · 2017-05-22T02:30:36+00:00

Lame sauce

Kalepsis · 2017-05-23T15:12:32+00:00

Title	LDR in college?
Author	backizwack
Upvotes	2
Comments	11
Date	May 20, 2017 7:29 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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