I am a 32 year old single dad. A 21 yo college girl who I'm really into on tinder (body is 100% my type), after a short, fairly vanilla exchange, sends me "Do you like sexting?" I'm sure that sexting is going to kill my chances of her riding my cock, so I want to convince her to cum see me in person.

My thinking is to establish the frame that it will be better if we form a connection and establish comfort first before sexting. That's easy to do in person as I'm pretty attractive and charismatic, but even if I do manage to get her to go out with me, it will be more difficult to pull her back to my place, considering she's already got it in her head that comfort/connection/attraction with me will lead to sexting, and not sex.

Any thoughts on how to respond to "Do you like sexting?"