Does Chad = Jody

CypressSmallz · 2017-05-22T14:47:28+00:00

Call him whatever you want but if it's not your dick, it's not your chick.

youcantdenythat · 2017-05-22T19:17:39+00:00

Jody gets lucky because he's the only one around.

Chad gets lucky because he's better than you and he doesn't even have to try.

quicklogaccount · 2017-05-22T19:23:25+00:00

Nope. Jody is meant to be hated. He's only prevailing because of the SO's absence and he's inherently less valuable than the SO, since by definition the SO is a hardened sacrificial soldier with a steady income.
Here, also, the woman is shit. Again by definition, she stepped up for committing to a soldier and failed to fulfill the task.
When it comes to the Jody, there's no excuse. There's no social understanding about the woman having the freedom to leave, it's not socially acceptable for her to branch swing. In some jurisdictions an army spouse that files for divorce while or during deployments isn't even eligible for alimony.
The cheated soldier is most often seen as right and with sympathy, she is most often seen as neutral or with some antipathy (unless she suffered abuse).

Chad is the guy that wins the girl, he's not to blame for that. The girlfriend was rather having a night with Chad than a whole relationship with the boyfriend, she was totally willing to give the LTR up.
If she cheats on Billy with Chad, there's some social "understanding". Some people will absolve her, some people will condemn her. Some idiots will even say Billy owes her a chance or two for reasons.
If she BREAKS UP with Billy to be accept Chad's commitment, everyone will tell Billy it was totally right of her to have done so. If she does it to GAME Chad for commitment, everyone will say she is still right and probably blame Chad if he fails to commit. If she does it to take his cock only, everyone will say it was her choice and hers alone.
She will only face SOME foul judgment if she breaks up with Billy only to take Chad's cock and then goes back to Billy. Otherwise, even if she tries to game Chad for commitment and fails, no one will condemn her.
Anyway. Billy, unlike the soldier, is seen as either neutral or a loser, hardly a victim, hardly with sympathy. Very few idiots will believe Billy owes her anything but some idiots do think like that.
She is seen as justified and right in most cases, she might be seen with sympathy (as a Chad's victim, never at Billy's expense). She's rarely seen as "guilty".
Chad himself, unlike Jody, is hardly ever wrong. He's only wrong if he "promised her commitment and led her on".

RunawayGrain · 2017-05-23T00:58:25+00:00

I've observed a number of military wives fucking each other while their husbands were deployed. They aren't Chad. Like Jody, they are just a convenient way to get off when the husband isn't around.

Title	Does Chad = Jody
Author	zeeohsixer
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Comments	4
Date	May 22, 2017 2:35 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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