So I posted yesterday about this on TRP not realizing there was an ask TRP where I should have posted. My bad.
Anyhow, two female friends have been trying to set me up with their friend. I waited like 6 mo. to go out with her for a host of reasons. She seems like a straight laced church girl..which I don't trust.
So I called her Tuesday, chatted a bit and set up a hiking date for Fri PM.The girl was cute. Really cute actually.
Took care of all the logistics. Told her to show up at my house ready to hike.
Hike was ok. She was out of shape and hadnt hiked lately..About 2 hrs long. Convo was a bit boring and got kinda "interviewy".. shes one of these girls who only works and doesn't do or talk much about anything else. Stayed away from politics and past relationships
Flirted a little bit, grabbed her arms and waist briefly whenever I could. Date was ok maybe a 5..told her she was cute and I liked her vibe, and that I would like to see her again.
So Friday PM after the date, I go check my tinder to see if this other girl had messaged me back and now there is the girl I just went out with!! WTF..I live in a small town and there's not much on Tin. compared to bigger cities. I saw her FB pics back in the fall when my one friend 1st started to try and get me to go out with her. So I know I have NOT seen her on there. Now she's on there right after our date. There was no talk of me being in Tinder on the date.
Now she's plastered on my Tinder. I can't see any new girls until I swipe her. So...left or right and if right..then what? Message or ignore.. I'm 43 and only been single a short while. Not sure how to handle all this. I would totally ignore it and not bring it up, but now my Tinder is bascially blocked.
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