I've been dealing with a whole bunch of girls at work. one of them was calling me stuff like "baby" and "honey" and crap like that. another one was asking me if i was married (they saw me with my grandma who is kinda young looking for her age and thought i was married to her lol). yet another one was asking (today) about the ring on my finger (it's on my right hand). These girls were complaining because i "seem like the type to not like black girls".

fast forward to yesterday. the one who was asking about my ring was all like "this whatchamacallit was all wet." so instead of wiping her hands on her pants or a napkin, she wipes it on my shirt. i would have just thought "rude" if it were quick. but she was taking way too long, and she was going down from my chest to my waist. i didn't do anything about it, but i felt uncomfortable with it. I'm not sure if i should have been, but I've been sexually assaulted before.

now today, i was watching this, and my coworker had walked by just as the scene from Beyoncé's Single Ladies video comes up, and i get called a pig, and she goes telling the other girls and i get death looks for the rest of my lunch break. Great.

and then yesterday some chick threw some water in my face while i was asleep. now if i did the same thing to her, I'm pretty sure I'd get beaten up and probably arrested for assault.