I haven't see one plate in like a month and since I'll be heading her way tonight I want to see if I can see her tonight. I don't want to just say "hey, I can come tonight, do you want to see me" or something along those lines to give her the power but making a joke about our last encounter, to start the conversation, is too late at this point. How do you guys initiate the text convo when you want to see a plate?