I always see the phrase "Treat a girl like you've fucked her already" how does one do that?

nrjk · 2017-06-09T16:14:15+00:00

Don't be shy about what you say. Don't walk on egg shells and try to please them. Make them laugh, be relaxed, and uncaring.

I've always had that attitude-I say offensive/risque/over the top shit and it might put some people off, but it attracts more. Being the shy, timid type gets you nowhere. If you've already fucked a girl, why would you be shy or timid afterward-you literally just put your dick in them.

quicklogaccount · 2017-06-09T16:36:51+00:00

If you had fucked her already would you be shy about opening her?
Open her.

Had you already banged would you hesitate in escalating?
Escalate.

You will bang her and acting as if you weren't going to bang her is both dishonest with her AND it tends to lead you nowhere.

[deleted] · 2017-06-09T17:22:33+00:00

It's an alternate version of, "Don't put the pussy on a pedestal." You know how you lose a lot of interest/drive/desire/thrill of the chase once you've fucked someone and realize the awesomeness you attributed to strange pussy lost the "magic". Guess what? There was no Magic to start with.... you gave her those attributes in your own head. "There's this one special girl..." No. There is not. So stop going around thinking you'll find your unicorn. Talk to women like you already know there's nothing magical about them.

robodylan123 · 2017-06-09T16:09:06+00:00

You need to delude yourself into believing you've already made the sale. Athletes, for example, don't always win because they are physically the best, but rather they win because they know they are going to win. Assume the sale.

Occams_Stubble · 2017-06-09T16:18:17+00:00

Don't pedestalize her. Don't fawn over her. Hungry guys act hungry and it looks desperate. If you aint good enough to be gettin any why should she give you any?

Peter_B_Long · 2017-06-09T22:32:38+00:00

I agree with what nrjk said. But if it seems a bit too extreme or confusing for you, just treat a girl as if you know that she has a crush on you. Tell yourself -of course she has a crush on me, why wouldn't she?- and play it off that. This gives you a confident flirty vibe without coming off too strong.

RedPillgrim · 2017-06-09T15:41:37+00:00

Fuck a girl and you'll find out.

Title	I always see the phrase "Treat a girl like you've fucked her already" how does one do that?
Author	Insendi
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Date	June 9, 2017 3:31 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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