So I have been playfully incorporating negative emotional spikes into my conversations with women. However, I sometimes will say something playfully negative, but feel "guilty" for saying that right after.

I had no dependency on the outcome in this situation in particular as it was someone I wasn't interested in at all. I just felt bad for possibly making someone feel invalidated. I'm obviously newer to this and getting used to reality.

Anyway to get over this/learn to deal?