i ran into a girl who was all about me from day 1. She had red flags: use of drugs heavier then pot, ongoing court battle with ex, paranoid that id dump her, paranoid that id hear things about her that would ruin it,refused to talk about sex, like would shut down. Her ex was also 50 and worked retail and did tons of drugs however, we had fun. and i liked how into me she seemed after being second fiddle to these other women.

The issue/behavior

However, the issue became that the first time we had sex, i was wasted and i guess i didnt get totally hard. the second time she gave me a bj, but put so much pressure on me coming right away, that i kinda lost my erection. from that point forward, she would freak out that sex didnt work for us pre emptively to me initiating sex. which made it super hard to get aroused as it hurt my feelings lol.

The break up anyways, she was still super sweet and nice. The last time we hung out, she spent all this money on me and we had a great time. the next mornign, she woke up and went on a rant about how sex doesnt work for us and we need to take a break for months since i was so nerous around her.

she kept going for like an hour until i got a ride home. she texted me to talk afterwards and kept asking me if i didnt want to be with her to let her know. but wouldnt realy talk abotu the sex thing, just said ok. i let my frustrations get the best of me. and ended things, but within 5 seconds i tried to fix it. she kept going how heart broken she was. so i embarrassed myself blasting her with text trying to fix it. Like i completely over texted and humiliated myself. but i guess i was led into it cuz she kept telling me how heart broken she was

aftermath

3 times since, a few of her friends have proactively reached out and made fun of me for having a limp dick. When i asked the original girl why they keep attacking me, she said she isnt friends with them anymore and invited me to her party she was having I noticed 2 weeks after she invited me to the party she was having, she became facebook offical with some guy. so im guessing she invited me over to try and humiliate me. why im stuck this one has me hurting. told this would be a good place to post