An interesting side effect to TRP

theredpill22 · 2017-06-25T18:08:18+00:00

Thanks and a smile. That's all you have to say.

For me it gave me huge self assurance and helped me become more relaxed and confident in social situations. It also allows you tick that box so to speak. The knowledge / belief that you could get 90% of women you meet if you wanted becomes a self fulfilling prophecy. Your confidence and demeanor reflects this belief.

So when I go out I just go to have a good time and have fun. I'm polite and courteous to people, even when people are jealous and nasty. It doesn't bother me because I can see the hurt and insecurity behind their actions. Has no effect on me whatsosever. In fact ot only adds to my confidence, as it means I must be doing something right if people are acting like that towards me. Often times, being nice and showing that you really don't give a single shit gets the jealous people to shut up and start being nice to you anyway because they end up just looking bad.

Case in point : one of my GFs orbiters. Was a bit of a douche to me initially, wouldn't salute me in public, thought I was mean to his queen (just because I was about the only person who wouldn't put up with her shit), tried to demean me in public once or twice.

My reaction was always a polite, relaxed one. Always said hello to him by name, always offered him my help when necessary, always made an effort to talk to him in social settings.

I could see the feelings behind his actions. He liked my girlfriend, and due to his blue pill mentality, he couldn't understand why driving her places, always being a shoulder for her to cry on, wasn't working. Whereas I would give her zero validation and that only made her more attracted. So naturally he was jealous. But I was the one fucking her so do you think I cared? No. I let him throw his tantrum, he saw there was no way he was going to affect me, so he gave up. Now we get along fine.

Retspihi · 2017-06-25T15:11:48+00:00

Just be humble. It allows people to be even more appreciative of the better man you've become.

The-Hardball-Player · 2017-06-25T17:14:15+00:00

You either have to embrace it completely and become like Kanye or forget being arrogant and not get into it at all. I embrace it so it is part of my reputation. With me, it's just expected.

If you're halfway cocky, people will hold you to the expectations of a normal person and be mad at you and criticize you.

If you're completely arrogant then people will actually settle down and go "that's just who he is". and it will be a part of your character. You will be a spectacle and people will eagerly look at you to see what you'll do next.

Funny how that works but you shouldn't be halfway douchey. All the way unapologetic or fake humble like most celebrities. One or the other.

How can this negatively affect your game? You literally could just stick out your arm and say "come" if they are talking about your good looks directly to you...

NYLON_G · 2017-06-25T20:47:24+00:00

Keep your ego in check. Failure to do so renders you a cad. You need not respond to comments other than a curt thank you and get on with your business. As soon as you start reading other qualities and characteristics into your situation you are in trouble.

WheresMyNeckbeard · 2017-06-25T15:48:37+00:00

if someone gives you a compliment, just say "aww thank you, that's very kind of you" in a genuine way and move onto whatever it was you wanted to talk about anyways

Title	An interesting side effect to TRP
Author	Getthefupandgo1023
Upvotes	2
Comments	13
Date	June 25, 2017 3:07 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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