My Experiences with Domestic Violence

jagenigma · 2017-01-11T21:16:11+00:00

is that dress white and gold, or black and blue?

Dembara · 2017-01-11T17:05:31+00:00

A very sad story. I am glad that despite their horrible experiences they are able to come in from a rational standpoint.

furyoffive · 2017-01-11T18:22:13+00:00

Good read.

contractor808 · 2017-01-11T21:50:51+00:00

Feminism victimizes women, and makes men inherently bad When you think in victim hood, you don’t think about what responsibility you hold for being with these men...What I learned with my psychiatrist was to take responsibility of putting myself in those bad situations. Not the responsible of my abuse, but responsible of being attracted to that type of man. And responsibility for how I was attracting them. Feminism say they are about empowerment, but it never talks the responsibility of the victim in her own life choices. And yes, in some case, nobody expected it, but regular abuse has a common denominator and it’s the victim. By taking the responsibility in being vulnerable to them, yet attracted to them, I was able to stop the cycle and I’m now with a great man.

A very important point that often is described as "victim blaming." We all have to realize how to improve our life and avoid making the same mistakes repeatedly. It's good that the author has moved on to a better place in life. It seems like such a terrible history could have led to a much darker outcome.

blueXcat · 2017-01-12T07:03:32+00:00

Thanks for sharing my article stranger :)

2017-01-12T03:52:08+00:00

That lady is a dumbass.

Title	My Experiences with Domestic Violence
Author	MHRA_Leander
Upvotes	16
Comments	8
Date	January 11, 2017 4:34 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/5nd53u/my_experiences_with_domestic_violence/
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