Help with friend zone please

FuckboyAWALT · 2017-07-04T22:01:46+00:00

I want to stand my ground...

Your not standing your ground, you are her little puppy ready to serve as soon as she shows a bit interest (she is probably bored or taking a shit could be also simultaneously)

Man up and read sidebar.

potatothethird · 2017-07-04T21:38:22+00:00

Hard Next. Not because of her but because of you. Sending that weak of a text just makes you look insecure and now she knows it. She knows she has power over you when it should be the complete opposite. Work on your inner game and try and talk to more girls. It will teach you to stop caring so much and just go with the flow.

NexusReflexX · 2017-07-04T21:53:26+00:00

Yeah dude you look weak as fuck here. Forget this girl, and every girl for that matter for at least a week or so. Internalize some trp books and sidebar material.

Read what you wrote objectively, as if someone else showed u that message that they sent to someone, and what would your reaction be?

DaddyIssues6 · 2017-07-04T21:36:11+00:00

You already said to fucking much and u OnCies

vandaalen · 2017-07-04T21:35:57+00:00

Sidebar motherfucker. Do you read it?

https://www.trp.red/p/mattyanon/260

jay_jay_man · 2017-07-04T21:51:47+00:00

No actually to get be able to see u. If we hung out more maybe that would change

This is bullshit. Attraction can't be negotiated. What she's saying is that if you give me your time and attention for nothing maybe (just maybe) I'll like you sexually.

What'll probably happen is that you become her emotional tampon and therapist while you suffer in sexual frustration land.

fuck-fuck-fuck-fuck- · 2017-07-04T22:04:57+00:00

Been hanging out with this girl and she has hinted at just being friends.

Your fault. You probably initiated nothing at all.

So I sent her a text that said "Don't hit me up anymore unless you're willing to try something different. I don't know why you would want to do that to me anyway. Probably just to use me."

Butt hurt.

And she replied "No actually to get be able to see u. If we hung out more maybe that would change"

Says words and stuff that you want to hear. No intentions of ever sucking your dick but, you know, you can keep trying for the next 12-100 months to see if she eventually stops sucking everyone else's dick.

I haven't texted back yet because I want to stand my ground. What should I do

She sees you as a bitch. You have no shot.

puthrowitdown · 2017-07-05T00:10:28+00:00

Oneitis. Next. More plates.

LLL3peat · 2017-07-05T02:51:09+00:00

Everyone says hard next and I agree.

However next time she hits you up Invite her over for dinner and tell her to being a bottle of wine. If she says no or she doesn't feel comfortable than tell her to call her if she changes her mind. Then you next. Maybe she will reach out maybe she won't. But you have to walk and never look back. You can't negotiate attraction

LordThunderbolt · 2017-07-04T22:20:40+00:00

You can't negotiate attraction. She shouldn't be "thinking" about wanting you, her body should legit WANT you.

Do you lift? I'd say it's not over yet. She's down to hang. All you have to do is go your game and escalate. Next time you see her be at your best, get a good pump, dress nice, lightly flirt with other girls you see, tall to dudes, just be upbeat and social, and apply kino

[deleted] · 2017-07-05T12:12:49+00:00

That is some real tryhard shit you texted her man. You killed any attraction you may have had with that butthurt shit. Don't do that.

GreenPiller · 2017-07-05T01:26:44+00:00

LMAO Her manipulation tactics are so obvious... get the fuck outta there before it's too late.

Title	Help with friend zone please
Author	xetoll
Upvotes	1
Comments	14
Date	July 4, 2017 9:29 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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