Best course of action when a woman isn't saying no through text?

kenpachitz · 2017-07-06T20:05:16+00:00

Don't bother.

If a woman wants to meet you, she won't throw up roadblocks.

JackGetsIt · 2017-07-06T20:25:29+00:00

There's a lot of advice on redpill that goes something like, 'if she's not beating down your door then she's just playing you' this is a bit disingenuous. That advice is meant for blue pill billy beta that wants to be friends for a year and set up covert contracts with women. However, unless you're SMV is super sky high most women are going to require some pushing, tact, and pageantry.

If you don't like this pushing (most men don't) you can A) get working on your SMV B) Hit on girls a lot lower then you. Those are your options.

Now a better approach is too push and pull. There are lots of guides on this but it comes down to clearly showing attention but not too much and then withdrawing but not fully and looking for response. If she likes you at all she will play into this game, if she doesn't play then get out of there. You're going to have a very dry dick though if you drop every girl that shit tests you or gets flaky on you. It's in a women's nature to flake and be hesistent even with guys they like (sometimes lots of hesitation could be a sign they like you a lot and thus think your LTR material and don't want to come off too easy as a result). Think about it. Would you want your future wife or LTR girlfriend to be that chick that just said yes to every guy that made a move?

1z1z2x2x3c3c4v4v · 2017-07-06T17:45:32+00:00

Make a plan to do something fun and interesting, then she might be more inclined to come over.

RedSkeller · 2017-07-06T18:55:54+00:00

They'll never give you a hard 'no'. Give them one shot, if they decline/flake or ghost give them a week and hit them with another feeler text then go straight into logistics. If she once again fails to meet up, aside from a life threatening reason, forget her entirely. No woman will play impossible to get or avoid a man she wants to bang if there was attraction.

Title	Best course of action when a woman isn't saying no through text?
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Upvotes	6
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Date	July 6, 2017 5:07 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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