Been meeting a lot of great new girls lately, but I'm struggling to set a sexual frame still. This has never been my strong point, except for when I've (imagine this) been super drunk and not giving a fuck. Even then, it's pretty sloppy and not anything I could easily do during the daytime or on a date.

I've read a few guides and posts about it, but all of them seem to just tell me that sexual frame is important.

Specifically, I've tuned my conversations to mostly avoid the obvious topics like exes, work, and repetitious small talk, and I've gotten better and more confident at kino as well...but I really just need a push to get the right conversations flowing.

This guide helped a little bit, but the 4 steps towards the end really seem focused on how to convey frame, rather than what to put into it: http://www.girlschase.com/content/sexual-framing-more-using-get-girls

Can anyone suggest a read that helped them, or give some pointers?